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Click Image To Visit Site 1. Does he act out in verbally aggressive behaviors, or does he have ‘rages’, especially if he feels he has been insulted in some way? Does he blame ‘you’ or accuse you of being the one that is ‘acting out’ or ‘out-of-control’?

5. Is everything always about him and is nothing ever about you? Does he seem insensitive to your needs, unappreciative of your input, or non-acknowledging of your accomplishments? Does he not recognize your giving, kindness, and thoughtfulness? Does he seem genuinely not interested in your life?



7. Does he show one side (Dr. Jekyll) to the public (a perfected persona which you know is fake), and another side (Mr. Hyde) to you in private? Does he go out of his way to impress people? 8. Does his ego bruise easily, or is he hyper-vigilant to the slightest insult? Do you have to be careful how you word things or voice grievances? 9. Does he expect special treatment or feel he is ‘entitled’ to it? 10. Does he talk about himself more than you feel is normal? 11. Does he avoid eye contact with you, or does he withhold sex or affection? Has he been unfaithful?

12. Does he seem to lack empathy or compassion for others, or does he ‘fake’ it to enhance his ‘public persona’? 13. Do you feel emotionally battered and confused?

15. Is he histrionic? In other words, in public does he hog the limelight, putting on exaggerated shows and telling fascinating stories of himself in order to be the center of attraction? Is he loud or does he act like he is on stage when engaging in simple conversations with other people?

Have You Broken Up With, or Are You In Love With a Man That Has a ‘Counterfeit Heart’?

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….and not even acknowledge it to himself! Why? Because he’s off charming the socks off of new women as if your years together didn’t even exist!

"He’s off charming the socks off of new women as if your years together didn’t even exist!"

"Read this woman’s books. Oh I wish I could’ve spent a mere few bucks and learned all that at 18 (the hurt I would’ve saved myself!!!). Read it, reread it. Feel it and live it." -Iris

Of course, you will never see this in the beginning of the relationship with a narcissistic man. Many women do not see any of these harmful qualities until the relationship gets serious because both the narcissist and his prey tend to idolize people in the beginning of relationships.

And being idolized feels good – so good that we often willingly overlook the red flags.

“Women know how to fake orgasm. Men know how to fake an entire relationship.” ~ Sharon Stone

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NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER, RECOVERY FROM NARCISSTIC ABUSE

Click Image To Visit Site Are You Finding no matter what you do that you just can’t get over or past a relationship? Are you still finding yourself going back either physically or emotionally trying to find resolution or closure?

It may be that you have been involved with someone who is a narcissist or has narcissistic personality disorder.



It begins with a feeling that something just isn’t right in your life. You may suspect your mate or significant other, but you can’t be sure!

Your own research or visit to a professional therapist may bring you to the conclusion that you have suffered narcissistic abuse.

Narcissism effects the victim on a very deep soul level. It is a type of "soul rape" that leaves the victim feeling very violated on many levels.

Not only might you be feeling a deep sense of violation but you might also be feeling as if something has been taken from you. That is because something has been taken!

Over a period of time you have unconsciously been giving away pieces of your soul until you feel there is not much left. You are left feeling empty, used, and discarded like a worn out shoe.

Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse is a process and it takes time, however recovery can happen much quicker if you understand what has happened and know what you can do to take back your power.

Psychology focuses on healing the wounded inner child, increasing your feelings of self-worth and other modalities to help you with the mental and emotional aspects of abuse and recovery.

Recovery from Narcissistic abuse must happen on a spiritual level. I’m not referring to any kind of religious belief system. It is not religious healing I am talking about!

Spiritual Healing is "of the spirit!" It is the process of working with the life-force energy within you; the part of you that feels passion, excitement, hope, promise and all those things you likely felt at the beginning of your relationship with a narcissist!

The goal is to get yourself back! Your Life-force doesn’t and never did belong to the narcissist in your life!

We can spend our energy delving into our past, talking about our parents, our inner wounded child, our past relationships, issues of self-esteem and self-worth and all of it will mean nothing if you are still psychically attached to the narcissist. This could… Read more…